Gay Personality Engine
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Immersive social mapping

Discover your Gay Personality Archetype

You’ll move through three curated sets of 20 sliders. Each slider tracks how strongly a scenario feels like you, helping us map your Energy, Connection, Expression, and Adaptability spectrums.

Be radically honest—nuance beats perfection Sliders (0–100) show how much a moment is “you” Stay neutral by leaving a slider untouched Results stay private unless you share
Illustration representing Gay Personality Archetypes
Set 1 of 3

How do these moments feel for you?

Slide toward 0 if it’s not you at all, 100 if it’s wildly accurate. Every slider tunes the spectrums behind your archetype.

Energy Anchor ↔ Wanderer Question 1 / 60
1. I prefer hosting dinner parties where I control the guest list and atmosphere.
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Energy Anchor ↔ Wanderer Question 2 / 60
2. A spontaneous weekend trip with someone I just met sounds exciting.
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Energy Anchor ↔ Wanderer Question 3 / 60
3. I feel anxious when my daily routines get disrupted.
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Energy Anchor ↔ Wanderer Question 4 / 60
4. I enjoy walking into a bar alone without knowing who I might meet.
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Energy Anchor ↔ Wanderer Question 5 / 60
5. I have a favorite order at my regular spots and rarely try new things.
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Energy Anchor ↔ Wanderer Question 6 / 60
6. The idea of moving to a new city every few years appeals to me.
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Energy Anchor ↔ Wanderer Question 7 / 60
7. I prefer relationships that follow predictable patterns and rhythms.
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Energy Anchor ↔ Wanderer Question 8 / 60
8. I get bored seeing the same people in the same places week after week.
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Energy Anchor ↔ Wanderer Question 9 / 60
9. My home is carefully decorated and everything has its place.
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Energy Anchor ↔ Wanderer Question 10 / 60
10. I enjoy the thrill of not knowing where the night will take me.
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Energy Anchor ↔ Wanderer Question 11 / 60
11. I feel most comfortable in familiar environments where I know the social rules.
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Energy Anchor ↔ Wanderer Question 12 / 60
12. I prefer first dates to be adventurous activities rather than quiet dinners.
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Energy Anchor ↔ Wanderer Question 13 / 60
13. I maintain certain weekly traditions that ground me.
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Energy Anchor ↔ Wanderer Question 14 / 60
14. I often make last-minute plans and enjoy the spontaneity.
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Energy Anchor ↔ Wanderer Question 15 / 60
15. I feel unsettled when I don't have a clear plan for the weekend.
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Connection Intimate ↔ Networked Question 16 / 60
16. I'd rather have one deep conversation than mingle with many people at a party.
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Connection Intimate ↔ Networked Question 17 / 60
17. I enjoy introducing friends from different parts of my life to each other.
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Connection Intimate ↔ Networked Question 18 / 60
18. Learning someone's hidden trauma feels more intimate than physical intimacy.
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Connection Intimate ↔ Networked Question 19 / 60
19. I maintain active group chats with people from different social circles.
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Connection Intimate ↔ Networked Question 20 / 60
20. I prefer one-on-one dates over group hangouts for getting to know someone.
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Set 2 of 3

How do these moments feel for you?

Slide toward 0 if it’s not you at all, 100 if it’s wildly accurate. Every slider tunes the spectrums behind your archetype.

Connection Intimate ↔ Networked Question 21 / 60
21. I'm good at remembering details about many people's lives.
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Connection Intimate ↔ Networked Question 22 / 60
22. I feel drained after surface-level conversations with multiple people.
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Connection Intimate ↔ Networked Question 23 / 60
23. I enjoy being the person who knows everyone at the party.
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Connection Intimate ↔ Networked Question 24 / 60
24. I share personal secrets only with a very select few.
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Connection Intimate ↔ Networked Question 25 / 60
25. I feel comfortable being vulnerable in group settings.
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Connection Intimate ↔ Networked Question 26 / 60
26. I prefer deep bonds with few people over casual connections with many.
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Connection Intimate ↔ Networked Question 27 / 60
27. I enjoy the energy of being surrounded by acquaintances who could become friends.
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Connection Intimate ↔ Networked Question 28 / 60
28. I take a long time to truly trust someone with my inner world.
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Connection Intimate ↔ Networked Question 29 / 60
29. I believe you can have meaningful connections without deep emotional disclosure.
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Connection Intimate ↔ Networked Question 30 / 60
30. I feel most seen when someone remembers small details I shared privately.
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Expression Refined ↔ Primal Question 31 / 60
31. I carefully plan what to wear based on who I'll be seeing.
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Expression Refined ↔ Primal Question 32 / 60
32. I prefer raw, unfiltered honesty even when it's uncomfortable.
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Expression Refined ↔ Primal Question 33 / 60
33. I think about how my actions will be perceived before I act.
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Expression Refined ↔ Primal Question 34 / 60
34. I express attraction directly rather than through subtle hints.
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Expression Refined ↔ Primal Question 35 / 60
35. I enjoy the art of seduction and slow-building tension.
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Expression Refined ↔ Primal Question 36 / 60
36. I'd rather have an awkward conversation than avoid conflict.
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Expression Refined ↔ Primal Question 37 / 60
37. I modify my speech and mannerisms depending on the company.
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Expression Refined ↔ Primal Question 38 / 60
38. I show my emotions openly, even when it's not socially advantageous.
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Expression Refined ↔ Primal Question 39 / 60
39. I appreciate well-executed social rituals and formalities.
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Expression Refined ↔ Primal Question 40 / 60
40. I believe true intimacy requires dropping all social masks.
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How do these moments feel for you?

Slide toward 0 if it’s not you at all, 100 if it’s wildly accurate. Every slider tunes the spectrums behind your archetype.

Expression Refined ↔ Primal Question 41 / 60
41. I enjoy witty banter and intellectual flirtation.
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Expression Refined ↔ Primal Question 42 / 60
42. Physical touch communicates more for me than words can.
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Expression Refined ↔ Primal Question 43 / 60
43. I prefer relationships that develop through gradual, thoughtful progression.
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Expression Refined ↔ Primal Question 44 / 60
44. I trust my gut instincts about people more than social cues.
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Expression Refined ↔ Primal Question 45 / 60
45. I find beauty in carefully constructed social performances.
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Adaptability Structure ↔ Flow Question 46 / 60
46. I keep a detailed calendar for my social and dating life.
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Adaptability Structure ↔ Flow Question 47 / 60
47. The best connections happen when you abandon all expectations.
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Adaptability Structure ↔ Flow Question 48 / 60
48. I feel anxious when relationships don't follow predictable patterns.
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Adaptability Structure ↔ Flow Question 49 / 60
49. I enjoy relationships that surprise me and defy categorization.
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Adaptability Structure ↔ Flow Question 50 / 60
50. I have clear boundaries about what I will and won't tolerate.
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Adaptability Structure ↔ Flow Question 51 / 60
51. I prefer to let relationships define their own shape naturally.
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Adaptability Structure ↔ Flow Question 52 / 60
52. I need clarity about "what we are" in a relationship.
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Adaptability Structure ↔ Flow Question 53 / 60
53. I'm comfortable with ambiguous relationships that don't have labels.
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Adaptability Structure ↔ Flow Question 54 / 60
54. I prefer scheduled date nights over spontaneous meetups.
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Adaptability Structure ↔ Flow Question 55 / 60
55. I enjoy the freedom of connections that don't come with expectations.
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Adaptability Structure ↔ Flow Question 56 / 60
56. I feel more secure when relationship milestones are clearly defined.
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Adaptability Structure ↔ Flow Question 57 / 60
57. I believe rules and structures can limit authentic connection.
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Adaptability Structure ↔ Flow Question 58 / 60
58. I like knowing exactly where I stand with people.
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Adaptability Structure ↔ Flow Question 59 / 60
59. I'm comfortable with relationships that exist outside traditional categories.
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Adaptability Structure ↔ Flow Question 60 / 60
60. I prefer clear communication about intentions from the beginning.
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