The toolkit

Everything you
need to say it.

Tests to understand yourself, tools to state your boundaries, maps of how you play and calculators for the weekend. Everything works without an account. Sign in only when you want to keep your results.

Know yourself

Assessments built for gay and queer men.

KinkFactor Identity Test

Your top kinks, how you like to play, your limits, and the kink archetype that fits you best.

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Gay Personalities

How you show up socially, and the gay personality archetype behind it.

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Queer Inner Persona

The inner queer persona behind how you show up.

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Consent & boundaries

Say what you want, and what you don’t, before anything starts.

Consent Form

Plan a scene together: what’s on, what needs asking first and what’s off. Sealed with a timestamp, kept private.

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Consent Playbook

Mark activities yes, maybe or no and share a readable summary with a partner.

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Spectrums

Visual maps of how you like to play.

Kink Lifestyle Spectrum

Power, intensity, planning, identity, scene and privacy, plotted on one radar.

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Compatibility Preferences

Top or bottom energy, service, sadism and dominance: your role balance at a glance.

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Involvement Spectrum

Spiritual or physical, power or play, sensory or emotional: how you like to play.

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Travel

Plan the weekend before it plans your budget.

Gay Weekend Calculator

Hotel nights, club visits, coffee and culture in Berlin, Amsterdam, Madrid and London.

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Urban Weekend Calculator

Flights, stays and nights out, compared across European cities.

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Compare & learn

Put results side by side, or look up the words.

Decoder

Compatibility across MBTI, Gay and Queer frameworks, archetype matching and full identity profiles.

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Dictionary

Queer language, kink vocabulary, roles, tribes and sexual health, searchable and cross-linked.

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KinkFactor

Know yourself

Consent & boundaries

Spectrums

Travel

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