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A7 terms
- Anal Chastity A form of chastity or "denial" play. It involves a device, often a metal plug or "belt," that is locked in place to prevent any anal insertion. It's… Gear & Wearables
- Anal Hooks A type of BDSM toy, typically made of metal, shaped like a hook. It is inserted anally and can be used for sensation, stretching, or as an attachment… Extreme & Edge Play
- Anal Sex The act of inserting a penis, strap-on, or dildo into a partner's anus. Because this involves sensitive tissue, it requires enthusiastic consent, rel… Sex & Anatomy
- Anal Stretching The practice of using gradually larger, body-safe toys (like a set of butt plugs or dilators) to train the anal sphincter to relax and "stretch." Thi… Practices & Activities
- Anal Toys Any body-safe toy designed for anal play. This includes butt plugs (for short or long-term wear), anal beads, and dildos. Must have a flared base to… Gear & Wearables
- Ass Play An umbrella term for any activity focused on the anus or buttocks. This includes rimming (oral), anal sex (penetration), prostate play, spanking, or… Sex & Anatomy
- Ass to Mouth (ATM) A sexual act, common in pornography, where a penis or toy is pulled from an anus and put directly into a partner's mouth. This is an advanced fetish. Extreme & Edge Play
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F2 terms
- Figging A form of sensation play. A piece of peeled ginger is inserted into the anus, which creates an intense stinging/burning sensation as the body's moist… Extreme & Edge Play
- Fucking Machines An electrical or mechanical device that provides automated, thrusting penetration with a dildo. The speed and depth are often adjustable. It can be u… Gear & Wearables
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P3 terms
- Pegging A specific term for when a person (of any gender) uses a strap-on dildo to penetrate a man anally. This is a common practice in both queer and straig… Sex & Anatomy
- Prostate Massage The act of stimulating the prostate, an internal gland often called the "male P-spot." This is done by inserting a finger or a curved toy into the an… Sex & Anatomy
- Prostate Play The act of stimulating the prostate, an internal gland (P-spot) that can produce intense orgasms. This is typically done by inserting a finger or a c… Sex & Anatomy
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S3 terms
- Sounding & Figging "Sounding" is inserting sterile, medical-grade objects into the urethra. "Figging" is inserting a piece of peeled ginger into the anus, which creates… Extreme & Edge Play
- Speculums A medical tool designed to hold open a body cavity. In kink, it's used (primarily anally for men) for "medical play," inspection scenes, or to allow… Gear & Wearables
- Strap-on (Pegging) A dildo attached to a harness, allowing a partner to penetrate another anally. When a man is penetrated by a partner using a strap-on, it is commonly… Gear & Wearables