Identity & Community
Everything the dictionary files under Identity & Community.
A10 terms
- Abrosexual Describes a sexuality that is fluid and changes over time. One week you might be a lesbian, the next you might be asexual, the next pansexual. Identity & Community
- ACE Short for asexual. An identity for someone who feels little to no sexual attraction. It's a whole spectrum, not just a switch that's flipped 'off'. I… Identity & Community
- Aceflux An orientation where your position on the asexual spectrum fluctuates. Some days you might feel completely asexual, other days more demisexual or gra… Identity & Community
- ACT-UP AIDS Coalition to Unleash Power. Not just some historical footnote; these are the activists who literally fought for their lives during the AIDS cris… Identity & Community
- Aegosexual A subset of asexuality where a person can enjoy the idea of sex, consuming erotic content, or having fantasies, but feels a total disconnect from bei… Identity & Community
- AFAB A clinical, yet necessary, term to describe the sex you were labeled with when you were born. It's a crucial piece of language in trans and Non-Binar… Identity & Community
- AMAB The counterpart to AFAB, this is the label slapped on you at birth based on your genitals. For trans women, Non-Binary folks, and anyone who doesn't… Identity & Community
- Androsexual Describes attraction to men, masculinity, or male anatomy, regardless of whether the person you're attracted to identifies as a man. Identity & Community
- Asexual Someone who experiences little to no sexual attraction to anyone. It is a spectrum (Ace-spec) that includes identities like demisexual and graysexual. Identity & Community
- Autosexual You are your own primary object of affection and sexual desire. It's more than just enjoying masturbation; it's a genuine preference for oneself over… Identity & Community
B5 terms
- Bear Rugged, confident men who embrace size, body hair, and warmth. Bears embody relaxed masculinity and a grounded sensuality. Identity & Community
- BI Bisexual. Attracted to more than one gender. No, they're not just 'confused' or 'greedy'. Bisexuality is a valid identity that often gets erased or m… Identity & Community
- Bicurious For someone, usually identifying as straight, who is curious about dipping a toe into the queer dating or sex pool. It can be a genuine step in a jou… Identity & Community
- Bisexual Attraction to more than one gender. Historically defined as attraction to both men and women, it's a core identity on the multisexual spectrum. Identity & Community
- BLM Black Lives Matter. More than just a hashtag, it’s a global movement demanding justice and fighting systemic racism. In the queer community, it’s a n… Identity & Community
C5 terms
- CD Cross-Dresser. Someone who wears clothing typically associated with a different gender. This is about gender expression, not identity or sexuality. I… Identity & Community
- Chaser Men who admire and desire bigger or hairier partners, often part of bear and chub scenes. The key is respect, not fetish. Identity & Community
- Chub Large-bodied men who radiate sensual confidence and comfort. Chubs celebrate abundance, warmth, and touch. Identity & Community
- CIS Cisgender. The term for people whose gender identity matches the sex they were assigned at birth. Basically, not transgender. It's a necessary piece… Identity & Community
- Cub Younger, playful versions of bears—soft, affectionate, and proudly fuzzy. Identity & Community
D5 terms
- Daddy Mature, confident men who blend authority with care. The Daddy is all about steady energy, protection, and warmth. Identity & Community
- Daddy Bear Seasoned and strong. A blend of the Bear’s warmth and the Daddy’s protective dominance. Identity & Community
- Demisexual A person on the ace spectrum who only develops sexual attraction after a strong emotional bond has been formed. The bond comes first, then the attrac… Identity & Community
- Drag Theatrical rebels who transform gender into art. Drag artists mix glamour, politics, and humor into living performance. Identity & Community
- Dyke Originally a derogatory slur for a masculine or butch lesbian, this word has been powerfully reclaimed by the community as a term of pride and identi… Identity & Community
F2 terms
- Fraysexual The polar opposite of a demisexual. This is someone who feels an initial sexual spark with strangers or new acquaintances, but it fades away as soon… Identity & Community
- FTM Female to Male. The counterpart to MTF, this term describes a transgender man who was assigned female at birth and is transitioning to a male identit… Identity & Community
G6 terms
- Gay Someone attracted to the same gender. A core identity with a rich history of community, culture, and activism. Identity & Community
- Geek/Nerd Tech-savvy, curious, and passionate about niche worlds—from comics to coding. The geek tribe celebrates intellect and obsession as art. Identity & Community
- GNC Gender Non-Conforming. An umbrella term for people who don't follow society's stereotypes about how they should look, act, or dress based on their ge… Identity & Community
- Graysexual Inhabiting the "gray area" on the Asexual spectrum. A graysexual person might feel sexual attraction very rarely, only under specific circumstances,… Identity & Community
- Gym Bunny Sculpted and social. Gym bunnies treat fitness as both art and ritual—a celebration of the body’s glow. Identity & Community
- Gynesexual The counterpart to androsexual. Describes attraction to women, femininity, or female anatomy, regardless of whether the person you're attracted to id… Identity & Community
H4 terms
- Heteroflexible Mostly straight. A label for someone who primarily dates the opposite gender but is open to the occasional same-gender fun or connection. Identity & Community
- Homoflexible Mostly gay. The flip side of heteroflexible. You're primarily into the same gender, but you don't rule out the possibility of an opposite-gender conn… Identity & Community
- Homosexual The clinical, slightly archaic term for someone attracted to the same gender. It has a scientific "specimen" vibe that most people have ditched in fa… Identity & Community
- Hunk A timeless archetype of masculine allure—muscular, confident, and built to turn heads. Identity & Community
J1 term
L2 terms
- Leatherman Defined by discipline, heritage, and erotic ritual. Leathermen embody the aesthetics and ethos of power, respect, and restraint. Identity & Community
- Lesbian A woman who is romantically and/or sexually attracted to other women. A core identity with a rich history of community, culture, and activism. Identity & Community
M3 terms
- Monosexual An umbrella term for anyone who is only attracted to one gender. This includes people who identify as straight, gay, or lesbian. Identity & Community
- MTF Male to Female. A term used to describe a transgender woman who was assigned male at birth and is transitioning to a female identity. It's a slightly… Identity & Community
- Muscle Bear Hairy, muscular men who merge Bear sensuality with a gym-built physique—strength meets softness. Identity & Community
O4 terms
- Objectumsexual Experiences sexual and/or romantic attraction to objects or structures. For some, this can include strong emotional bonds or a sense of relationship… Identity & Community
- OMNISEXUAL Attracted to all genders, but unlike Pansexuality, gender can still be a factor in the attraction. An Omnisexual person might have different feelings… Identity & Community
- Omnisexual Similar to pansexual, but with a key difference: omnisexual people are attracted to all genders, but they *see* and recognize the gender of the perso… Identity & Community
- Otter Lean and hairy men with a playful spark—otters blend the sensuality of bears with an agile, flirty energy. Identity & Community
P4 terms
- Pansexual Attraction to people regardless of their gender. Often described as being attracted to "hearts, not parts," it emphasizes a person's identity over th… Identity & Community
- Polysexual Attraction to multiple, but not necessarily all, genders. Think of it as being on the multisexual spectrum somewhere between bisexual and pansexual. Identity & Community
- Preppy Clean-cut, crisp, and composed. Preppies favor refinement over rebellion and charm over chaos. Identity & Community
- Pup Playful men who embody loyalty and energy through pup play or affectionate submission. It’s all about joy and pack vibes. Identity & Community
Q3 terms
- QPOC Queer Person of Color. An identity term that specifically highlights the intersection of being both queer and a person of color. It's a term of solid… Identity & Community
- Queer The ultimate reclaimed umbrella term. Once a vicious slur, "queer" has been embraced as a defiant, political, and inclusive identity for anyone who i… Identity & Community
- Queer A defiant identity embracing fluidity and edge. Queer folks bend style, gender, and norms into self-made expression. Identity & Community
R2 terms
S4 terms
- Sapiosexual Primarily attracted to intelligence or intellectual connection, often prioritizing mental stimulation over gender or physical appearance. Identity & Community
- Sapphic A beautifully poetic umbrella term for women who are attracted to other women, be they lesbian, bisexual, or pansexual. Named after the poet Sappho. Identity & Community
- Smooth The sleek, polished counterpart to the Bear—a hairless body aesthetic that highlights texture and touch. Identity & Community
- Straight / Heterosexual Describes attraction to a different gender, typically within the male/female binary. It is often the default setting society pushes on everyone. Identity & Community
T4 terms
- TGNC Transgender and Gender Non-Conforming. An inclusive umbrella term that covers both transgender people and anyone else who doesn't conform to traditio… Identity & Community
- TS Transsexual. An older, more clinical term for a transgender person, particularly one who has undergone or desires to undergo medical transition. Many… Identity & Community
- Twink Youthful, slim, and smooth. Twinks bring flirty confidence and bright energy to the scene. Identity & Community
- Twunk A blend of twink charm and gym-built confidence. Youthful but with muscle to spare. Identity & Community