Sex & Relationships

#1 term

• 69 The classic yin-yang of oral pleasure. It’s the act of giving and receiving a BJ at the same time, a delicate balancing act of mutual satisfaction. S… Sex & Relationships

B3 terms

• BBC Big Black Cock. A term that's both a descriptor and a heavily loaded fetish category in porn and online. It often comes with a whole suite of racial… Sex & Relationships
• BJ Blow Job. The cornerstone of non-procreative sex. If you don't know what this is, you've probably stumbled into the wrong corner of the internet. It'… Sex & Relationships
• BTM Bottom. The partner who takes the receiving role in anal sex. It's not about being weak or passive; a Power Bottom can run the whole show from below.… Sex & Relationships

C1 term

• CPL Couple. Two people in a relationship, often looking for a third. On an app, this signals you're not just messaging one person. Be prepared for a grou… Sex & Relationships

D2 terms

• DP Double Penetration. The act of being penetrated by two penises (or toys) at once, typically anally and/or vaginally. It's a common porn trope and a l… Sex & Relationships
• DTF Down To Fuck. The three letters that cut through all the bullshit. This isn't about finding an LTR; it's the primal signal that someone is looking fo… Sex & Relationships

F2 terms

• F2F Face to Face. The moment of truth when you finally meet someone from the apps IRL (In Real Life). It's the transition from disembodied chat to an act… Sex & Relationships
• FWB Friends with Benefits. The messy, beautiful, and often complicated space between friendship and a relationship. You hang out, you trust each other, a… Sex & Relationships

G2 terms

• GGG Good, Giving, and Game. A concept popularized by sex columnist Dan Savage. It's the ideal attitude for a sexual partner: be good at it, be generous w… Sex & relationships
• GH Glory Hole. A hole in a wall or partition, often in a public restroom or adult bookstore, used for anonymous oral sex. It's a classic, seedy cruising… Sex & Relationships

I2 terms

• IC Incall. The opposite of Outcall. It means the sex worker or host is providing the location, and you have to travel to them. Sex & Relationships
• IR Interracial. A term for relationships or sexual encounters between people of different racial backgrounds. In the queer community, this often interse… Sex & Relationships

J1 term

• J/O Jack Off. Masturbation. Whether it's a solo activity or a group event (Circle Jerk), it's the foundational sexual act. Sex & Relationships

L3 terms

• LDR Long-Distance Relationship. A relationship where the partners live far apart. It's a challenge of trust, communication, and expensive plane tickets.… Sex & Relationships
• LFG Looking for Group. A term borrowed from the gaming world (Gaymer) that has been adapted for seeking a group sex scenario. It's a less direct way of s… Sex & Relationships
• LTR Long-Term Relationship. The unicorn of the dating app world. Putting this in your bio is a bold declaration that you’re not just looking for a NSA ho… Sex & Relationships

M1 term

• M4M Men for Men. A classification used in personal ads and on some apps to specify that you are a man seeking another man. A basic, functional tag from t… Sex & Relationships

N1 term

• NSA No Strings Attached. The quintessential agreement for modern casual sex. It means you’re here for a good time, not a long time. There's no expectatio… Sex & Relationships

P2 terms

• POLY Polyamorous. The practice of having multiple romantic and/or sexual relationships at the same time, with the knowledge and consent of everyone involv… Sex & Relationships
• POV Point of View. A style of porn shot from the perspective of one of the participants. It's designed to make the viewer feel like they are part of the… Sex & Relationships

Q1 term

• QPP Queerplatonic Partner. A relationship that blurs the lines between intense friendship and romantic partnership. A QPP involves a deep, committed bond… Sex & Relationships

S1 term

• SO Significant Other. A gender-neutral term for a committed partner. It's a slightly more formal, grown-up way of talking about your boyfriend, girlfrie… Sex & Relationships

V2 terms

• VERS Versatile. The holy grail of the gay dating pool. A Vers guy is comfortable being either a Top or a Bottom, and sometimes even switching within the s… Sex & Relationships
• VGL Very Good Looking. A classic personal ad abbreviation. It's a subjective but direct way of stating your perceived level of attractiveness or what you… Sex & Relationships