Gear & Wearables

A3 terms

• Anal Chastity A form of chastity or "denial" play. It involves a device, often a metal plug or "belt," that is locked in place to prevent any anal insertion. It's… Gear & Wearables
• Anal Toys Any body-safe toy designed for anal play. This includes butt plugs (for short or long-term wear), anal beads, and dildos. Must have a flared base to… Gear & Wearables
• Armbinders A piece of bondage gear, often made of leather, that straps the wearer's arms together behind their back, forcing an "elbows-touching" posture. It's… Gear & Wearables

B3 terms

• Ball Gag A common type of gag consisting of a rubber or silicone ball, held in place by a strap. It forcibly keeps the mouth open and prevents clear speech. I… Gear & Wearables
• Bondage Tape A type of fetish tape, often made of vinyl, that does not have a sticky adhesive. It is designed to stick only to itself, making it a safe way to cre… Gear & Wearables
• Bullwhips A type of single-tail whip, typically heavy and long. While often just cracked for the sound and psychological effect, it is a difficult and high-ris… Gear & Wearables

C7 terms

• Chains Metal chains are a common BDSM tool. They can be used as heavy-duty restraints (bondage), dragged across the skin (sensation/temperature play), or ra… Gear & Wearables
• Chastity (Caging) The practice of locking a partner's genitals in a "chastity device" or "cage." The key is held by the Dominant partner, making it a powerful tool for… Gear & Wearables
• Clamps (Nipple, etc.) A common kink toy used for sensation play. Clamps restrict blood flow and create a "pinch" that many find pleasurable. Nipple clamps are most common,… Gear & Wearables
• Clothespins A household item often used as a simple, low-cost clamp for nipples, balls, or other body parts. The spring provides a pinching sensation. They are a… Gear & Wearables
• Clover Clamps A specific type of BDSM clamp, often used for nipples, balls, or lips. They are known for their "pinching" sensation and the fact that they get *tigh… Gear & Wearables
• Collars & Leashes A collar is a powerful symbol of a BDSM dynamic, signifying trust, commitment, or "ownership." A leash is often used with it in pet play or scenes in… Gear & Wearables
• Corsetry The practice of wearing a corset (a stiff garment) to cinch the waist. This can be for fetish fashion, postural play, or long-term "waist training."… Gear & Wearables

D1 term

• Duct Tape A strong, adhesive household tape. It is sometimes used for bondage or gags, but it is *not* recommended. Gear & Wearables

E1 term

• E-Stim (Electro Play) Short for "electro-stimulation." This practice uses special devices (like a TENS unit or Violet Wand) to send mild electrical currents through the bo… Gear & Wearables

F1 term

• Fucking Machines An electrical or mechanical device that provides automated, thrusting penetration with a dildo. The speed and depth are often adjustable. It can be u… Gear & Wearables

G3 terms

• Gags & Hoods Gags are used for speech restriction and include ball gags, bit gags, and tape gags. Hoods cover the entire head, often for sensory deprivation or ob… Gear & Wearables
• Gas Masks A type of hood or mask that covers the face and filters air. In kink, it's used for sensory deprivation, "fear" play, or, in advanced cases, connecte… Gear & Wearables
• Genital Toys (Eg vibrating cockrings etc.) Items designed for genital stimulation. This includes vibrators, cock rings (to enhance erections), masturbators/strokers, and remote-control devices. Gear & Wearables

I1 term

• Inflatables A category of fetish gear that can be inflated with air. This includes inflatable butt plugs (which expand inside the body) or inflatable suits that… Gear & Wearables

L2 terms

• Latex / Rubber A popular fetish material, loved for its skin-tight feel, smell, and "second skin" look. It's often used for full-body catsuits, hoods, and other fet… Gear & Wearables
• Leather More than just a material, leather is a core part of gay kink history and identity. It's used for fetish wear (chaps, harnesses, vests) and durable b… Gear & Wearables

M1 term

• Medieval Devices A category of BDSM furniture and restraints inspired by historical torture or punishment devices. This includes items like stocks (for wrists/ankles)… Gear & Wearables

N1 term

• Nipple Clamps A common kink toy used for sensation play. They restrict blood flow and create a "pinch" that many find pleasurable. They can range from light (cloth… Gear & Wearables

P1 term

• PVC A synthetic material (polyvinyl chloride) used in fetish wear. It's known for its high-gloss, "wet" look and is often used for boots, catsuits, and s… Gear & Wearables

R2 terms

• Restraints (Cuffs, etc.) A general term for any gear used for bondage. This includes metal handcuffs, leather cuffs, fuzzy cuffs, rope, bondage tape, spreader bars, and more. Gear & Wearables
• Riding Crops A type of impact toy, originally for horse riding. It consists of a handle, a stiff shaft, and a flexible "popper" at the end. It delivers a sharp, s… Gear & Wearables

S6 terms

• Shackles A type of bondage gear, often made of metal and lockable, used for wrists and ankles. They are a "heavy" form of restraint, often used with spreader… Gear & Wearables
• Single Tail Whips A type of BDSM toy with a handle and one long, flexible lash (like an Indiana Jones whip). It's an *advanced* impact toy that is very fast and can ea… Gear & Wearables
• Spandex / Lycra A type of stretchy fabric (like Lycra) used in fetish wear, wrestling singlets, or zentai suits. It's known for its tight, "second-skin" feel. Gear & Wearables
• Speculums A medical tool designed to hold open a body cavity. In kink, it's used (primarily anally for men) for "medical play," inspection scenes, or to allow… Gear & Wearables
• Spreader Bars A piece of BDSM gear, typically a rigid bar with cuffs at each end, used to hold a partner's arms or (more commonly) legs open and apart. This create… Gear & Wearables
• Strap-on (Pegging) A dildo attached to a harness, allowing a partner to penetrate another anally. When a man is penetrated by a partner using a strap-on, it is commonly… Gear & Wearables

T1 term

• TENS Unit A TENS (Transcutaneous Electrical Nerve Stimulation) unit is a medical device co-opted for kink. It sends mild electrical pulses through sticky pads… Gear & Wearables

U1 term

• Uniforms A fetish centered on specific uniforms, such as military, police, or work attire. It often ties into roleplay fantasies involving authority, service,… Gear & Wearables

V1 term

• Violet Wand A specific "e-stim" toy that uses a glass wand to conduct a high-voltage, low-amperage current. It creates a "zapping" or "stinging" sensation on the… Gear & Wearables

W1 term

• Wartenberg Pinwheels A medical device with a rotating wheel of sharp (but not cutting) pins. When rolled across the skin, it creates an intense, "prickly" sensation. It i… Gear & Wearables