KinkFactor Dictionary
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A1 term
C3 terms
- Chastity Use of a device (e.g. cage, belt) to prevent genital stimulation or orgasm. Can involve control, denial, and long-term power dynamics. Control
- Cleanliness rules Enforced hygiene standards — from inspection to ritual washing or shaving. Control
- Cum control Partner controls when, how, or if the other may ejaculate. Often part of chastity, teasing, or orgasm denial scenes. Orgasm play
D2 terms
- Denial Restricting access to pleasure, orgasms, or stimulation. Can build intensity, power, or submissive obedience. Orgasm play
- Dominant The person who takes the "in charge" role in a BDSM scene or relationship. This role is built on trust and the responsibility to care for their partn… Core Dynamics & Roles
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S5 terms
- Secret commands Gesture or non-verbal signals triggering rules, posture, or internal reaction in submissive. Control
- Secret rules Rules only known by the dominant and submissive — adds stealth, tension, or anticipation. Control
- Sensory deprivation Reducing senses (sight, sound, touch) using blindfolds, hoods, earplugs. Creates deep submission or altered state. Control
- Silence training Practicing prolonged silence or controlled speech — can include gagging or speech denial. Control
- Sleep control Dominating someone's rest — waking schedules, bedtime rituals, or dream restriction. Control