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B1 term

• Ball Gag A common type of gag consisting of a rubber or silicone ball, held in place by a strap. It forcibly keeps the mouth open and prevents clear speech. I… Gear & Wearables

C4 terms

• Consensual blackmail Fantasy involving 'leverage' over a submissive — photos, secrets, or social exposure. Power exchange
• Cuckold (Fetish) A psychological fetish and relationship dynamic. A "cuckold" partner derives arousal (which can be a mix of humiliation and "compersion"—joy at their… Practices & Activities
• Cuckolding Erotic scenario where one partner (often submissive) watches or is aware of the other having sex with someone else. Power exchange
• Cum eating Act of ingesting semen, either one’s own or a partner’s, often used as humiliation, reward, or ritual. Fluid play

D2 terms

• Degradation Intentional verbal or physical lowering of someone’s status. Must be consensual, clearly negotiated, and often needs strong aftercare. Humiliation
• Dirty Talk Speaking explicitly during a sexual or kink encounter. This can range from simple commands ("Yes, Sir") to detailed descriptions, verbal degradation,… Relationships & Intimacy

F3 terms

• Face Farting A niche fetish and a form of "scat" or "toilet" play where one partner consensually farts on the other's face. This is often part of a humiliation or… Extreme & Edge Play
• Facesitting A dominant act where one partner sits on the other's face. This can be for the purpose of receiving oral sex (rimming or cunnilingus) or as a form of… Practices & Activities
• Feminization (Sissification) A form of "gender play" where one partner (often a man) is "forced" or guided to adopt feminine attributes. This can involve cross-dressing, makeup,… Practices & Activities

H2 terms

• Human Ashtray A form of psychological degradation and objectification. The submissive consensually allows their partner to ash on them or in their mouth. This is a… Extreme & Edge Play
• Humiliation (Verbal) A psychological practice where a submissive finds pleasure in being consensually shamed, degraded, or embarrassed. This is almost always verbal ("dir… Practices & Activities

N1 term

• Name stripping Removal of someone's name or identity — replaced with titles like 'boy', 'object', or 'number'. Power exchange

P1 term

• Public Humiliation An advanced form of humiliation where a submissive is consensually embarrassed in public. This can range from subtle acts (like wearing a hidden plug… Extreme & Edge Play

S2 terms

• Sexual Objectification A form of psychological play where a submissive partner is treated as a "thing" for the Dominant's sexual use (e.g., "human dildo," "cum receptacle")… Core Dynamics & Roles
• Shaming Consensual humiliation around traits, behavior, or desires. Can be verbal or symbolic. Power exchange

T1 term

• Toilet Play (Scat) A fetish involving urine ("piss play") and/or feces ("scat"). This can range from "golden showers" to more extreme "human toilet" scenarios. It is a… Extreme & Edge Play

V2 terms

• Verbal humiliation Degrading or shaming language used consensually to trigger arousal or emotional intensity. Psychological
• Verbal Play A broad category of play that uses words to create a dynamic. This includes "dirty talk," giving commands ("Yes, Sir"), verbal humiliation, or offeri… Practices & Activities