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B3 terms

• Ball Kicking / Ballbusting A form of CBT (Cock and Ball Torture) that involves consensual impact (kicking, slapping, punching) to the testicles. It is a high-pain, high-sensati… Extreme & Edge Play
• Bastinado Also known as "foot caning." A form of corporal punishment where the soles of the feet are struck, typically with a cane. The feet are extremely sens… Extreme & Edge Play
• Bullwhips A type of single-tail whip, typically heavy and long. While often just cracked for the sound and psychological effect, it is a difficult and high-ris… Gear & Wearables

C5 terms

• Caning Impact play using rigid rods. Often part of structured discipline or corporal punishment scenes. Impact
• CBT (Ballbusting) Cock and Ball Torture (CBT) is consensual play focused on the genitals. This can range from light slapping or squeezing ("ballbusting") to more advan… Extreme & Edge Play
• CBT (Cock & Ball Torture) Cock and Ball Torture. A broad category of play involving consensual pain or sensation on the penis and testicles. This can include squeezing, slappi… Practices & Activities
• Cock Slapping A form of light CBT or "genital torture." It involves repeatedly slapping the penis and/or testicles, either with a hand or a light impact toy, to cr… Practices & Activities
• Corporal Punishment A BDSM term for disciplinary impact play. It refers to any consensual act of "punishing" the body, such as spanking, caning, or paddling, usually for… Practices & Activities

F2 terms

• Face slapping Impact play targeting the face. Extremely symbolic and risky — requires deep trust and negotiation. Impact
• Flogging Impact play using floggers — multi-tailed whips. Ranges from gentle to harsh, rhythmic or chaotic. Impact

H2 terms

• Hair pulling Grabbing and pulling hair to assert control or induce pain. Symbolic and often tied to dominance. Impact
• Hairbrush Spanking A common form of "domestic discipline" or impact play. The back of a wooden or plastic hairbrush is used as a paddle to spank a partner's buttocks. Practices & Activities

I1 term

• Impact Play A broad category for any play that involves striking the body. This includes spanking (hands), paddling (paddles), flogging (floggers), caning (canes… Practices & Activities

K1 term

• Kicking A form of heavy impact play. In kink, this is usually done with boots and is directed at durable parts of the body, like the thighs, boots, or buttoc… Extreme & Edge Play

P2 terms

• Paddling A form of impact play that involves spanking with a "paddle" (a flat, broad tool), as opposed to a hand, cane, or flogger. It typically creates a "th… Practices & Activities
• Punching Play An extreme form of impact play for advanced masochists, involving consensual, controlled punches to muscular areas (like the gut or pecs). This is *n… Extreme & Edge Play

R1 term

• Riding Crops A type of impact toy, originally for horse riding. It consists of a handle, a stiff shaft, and a flexible "popper" at the end. It delivers a sharp, s… Gear & Wearables

S3 terms

• Single Tail Whips A type of BDSM toy with a handle and one long, flexible lash (like an Indiana Jones whip). It's an *advanced* impact toy that is very fast and can ea… Gear & Wearables
• Slapping Open-hand strikes to face or body — combines sting and power assertion. Needs consent and body awareness. Impact
• Spanking Impact play using hands, paddles, or tools. Can be playful, disciplinary, or erotic. Impact

T1 term

• Trampling Walking or standing on a partner's body. Combines domination, impact, and sometimes humiliation. Body play

W1 term

• Whipping A broad term for impact play using a whip. This can range from "floggers" (many soft tails, creates a "thuddy" sensation) to "single tail" whips (one… Practices & Activities