KinkFactor Dictionary

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oral

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69 The classic yin-yang of oral pleasure. It’s the act of giving and receiving a BJ at the same time, a delicate balancing act of mutual satisfaction. S… Sex & Relationships

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Ass to Mouth (ATM) A sexual act, common in pornography, where a penis or toy is pulled from an anus and put directly into a partner's mouth. This is an advanced fetish. Extreme & Edge Play

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BJ Blow Job. The cornerstone of non-procreative sex. If you don't know what this is, you've probably stumbled into the wrong corner of the internet. It'… Sex & Relationships

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Face-sitting One partner sits on another’s face for oral or domination. Can be gentle, smothering, or playful. Body play

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Glory Hole A hole in a partition (often in an adult bookstore or sex club) that allows for anonymous sexual acts, typically oral sex, with the person on the oth… Practices & Activities

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Oral Sex (Cocksucking) Commonly known as a "blow job," this is the act of stimulating a partner's penis with the mouth. Clear consent and discussion about boundaries (like… Sex & Anatomy

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Rimming (Ass Worship) This is the act of using the mouth and tongue to stimulate a partner's anus. It's a common part of gay male sex and, like any act, requires clear con… Sex & Anatomy

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Swallowing (Cum) The act of swallowing semen at the end of oral sex. This is a common personal preference or fetish. Like any act involving bodily fluids, it requires… Sex & Anatomy

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Throat Fucking This is an advanced form of oral sex ("deep-throating") where a partner's penis reaches the back of the throat. It's an intense sensation that can tr… Extreme & Edge Play