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A1 term

• Alpha A leader role often borrowed from pop-culture hierarchies. The confident top of the social or power-dynamic ladder. Kink & BDSM

B1 term

• Brat A submissive who finds pleasure in "bratting"—playfully defying a Dominant's rules to invite a reaction, chase, or disciplinary scene. It's a form of… Core Dynamics & Roles

C1 term

• Caregiver A nurturing Dominant who provides comfort, guidance, and structure for their submissive. Common in age play or gentle power dynamics. Kink & BDSM

D3 terms

• Disciplinarian A Dominant who enforces structure and rules, often within domestic discipline dynamics using punishment or correction as tools of care. Kink & BDSM
• Dom Daddy A Dominant who blends authority with care. Firm yet nurturing, protective yet commanding. Kink & BDSM
• Dom-leaning Switch A Switch who usually prefers control but enjoys submitting sometimes. Flexible but with a dominant streak. Kink & BDSM

F1 term

• Feminizer A Dominant who directs or encourages the feminization of their submissive through behavior, attire, or mindset. Kink & BDSM

H1 term

• Handler A Dominant who trains, guides, or manages a pup or pet in play. They blend authority with encouragement. Kink & BDSM

K1 term

• Keyholder The one who holds the key in a chastity dynamic, controlling when or if their partner may orgasm. Kink & BDSM

M1 term

• Medical Player Someone who enjoys medical roleplay. This can range from "doctor/patient" scenes to fetishizing medical equipment, procedures, or sensations. Kink & BDSM

P3 terms

• Pleasure Dom A Dominant whose main thrill is maximizing their submissive’s pleasure — sometimes to an overwhelming degree. Kink & BDSM
• Power Exchange A broad term for any BDSM dynamic where one partner (submissive) consensually gives power and control to another (Dominant). This can be for a short… Core Dynamics & Roles
• Psychological Player Someone whose kink is focused on the mind. This includes power dynamics, humiliation, praise, gaslighting, or emotional control, often more than phys… Kink & BDSM

S2 terms

• Soft Dom A gentle Dominant who leads through empathy, words, and trust rather than fear or force. Power with tenderness. Kink & BDSM
• Strawberry Slang for a vanilla person curious about kink. Sweet, open, and ready to explore new territory. Kink & BDSM

T1 term

• Trainer A Dominant who enjoys shaping their submissive’s behavior through structure, praise, and repetition. Kink & BDSM