KinkFactor Dictionary

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A living glossary for queer language, consent culture and kink vocabulary. Search it, browse it by letter, or dive into a topic.

verbal

B1 term

Begging Psychological tool where one partner must plead or request something. Evokes vulnerability and control. Verbal

D1 term

Dirty Talk Speaking explicitly during a sexual or kink encounter. This can range from simple commands ("Yes, Sir") to detailed descriptions, verbal degradation,… Relationships & Intimacy

H1 term

Humiliation (Verbal) A psychological practice where a submissive finds pleasure in being consensually shamed, degraded, or embarrassed. This is almost always verbal ("dir… Practices & Activities

S1 term

Silence training Practicing prolonged silence or controlled speech — can include gagging or speech denial. Control

V2 terms