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psychological

A1 term

Abandonment play Scenes involving emotional distance, neglect, or isolation. Psychologically intense; needs strong aftercare. Psychological

F2 terms

Fear Play An advanced psychological kink where one partner creates a "safe" illusion of danger. This can involve verbal threats, brandishing (but not using) a… Practices & Activities
Feederism Erotic interest in feeding or being fed — includes weight gain, food control, and dominance over consumption. Psychological

I1 term

Interrogation Play A psychological roleplay scene focused on an interrogator trying to get information from a "prisoner." It often involves questioning, intimidation, a… Practices & Activities

M1 term

Mind Control (Mindfuck) An advanced form of psychological play where a Dominant uses suggestion, "gaslighting" (consensual), or hypnosis to influence a submissive's thoughts… Extreme & Edge Play

P1 term

Play Punishment The "consequence" in a BDSM scene, especially in Brat or Discipline dynamics. This is a negotiated, consensual act (like spanking or writing lines) t… Core Dynamics & Roles

S1 term

Subspace A common term for a "trance-like" or altered state of consciousness that a submissive (or even a Dominant) may enter during an intense BDSM scene. It… Core Dynamics & Roles

T1 term

Tears (Crying in Play) Crying during a scene is a common and complex response. It can be "play tears" (from intense sensation or emotion) or "real tears" (distress). It's v… Core Dynamics & Roles

V2 terms

W1 term

Worship Focused attention, admiration, or reverence to a body part, object, or person — feet, boots, muscles, etc. Psychological